When someone close to us passes away suddenly,
our natural reaction is shock, pain and disbelief.
It is natural to want to remember and celebrate their life with the people who knew them best.
We all have different ways to remember,
but we also have to be aware of the impact on the wider family, community and vulnerable people.
In order to ensure the safety of everyone else in the community,
it is important that gatherings or physical memorials like flowers, shoes or messages
are not placed at a location where your loved one presumed went missing.
This may have a negative effect on other members of the community.
Instead, there are many other ways to remember, such as a book, charity fundraiser,
planting a tree at a favourite site or organising a special event at a local club.
When organising gatherings, find a neutral community space
and inform local organisations and professionals so that they can be there to support.
With this support, professionals can help keep everyone safe,
and assist people who may need support the most.
Remember to be respectful of the families and others, and always speak to the family advocate.